【Compliance or Noncompliance for Children】
Many Scientists believe that socialization takes a long process, while compliance is the outset of it. Accordingly, compliance for education of children is the priority. Motivationally distinct forms of child compliance, mutually positive affect, and maternal control, observed in 3 control contexts in 103 dyads of mothers and their 26-41-month-old children, were examined as correlates of internalization, assessed using observations of children while alone with prohibited temptations and maternal ratings. One form of compliance committed compliance, when the child appeared committed wholeheartedly to the maternal agenda and eager to endorse and accept it, was emphasized. Mother-child mutually positive affect was both a predictor and a concomitant of committed compliance. Children who shared positive affect with their mothers showed a high level of committed compliance and were also more internalized. Differences and similarities between children's compliance to requests and prohibitions "Do" vs. "Don't" demand contexts were also explored. Maternal "Dos" appeared more challenging to toddlers than the "Don't". Some inpidual coherence of behavior was also found across both demand contexts. The implications of committed compliance for emerging internalized regulators of conduct are discussed.
A number of parents were not easy to be aware of the compliance, some even overlooked their children's noncompliance. Despite good education, these children did not follow the words from their parents on several occasions, especially boys in certain ages. Fortunately, this rate was acceptable, some parents could be patient with the noncompliance. Someone held that noncompliance is probably not a wrong thing. In order to determine the effects of different parental disciplinary techniques on young children's compliance and noncompliance, mothers were trained to observe emotional incidents involving their own toddler-aged children. Reports of disciplinary encounters were analyzed in terms of the types of discipline used reasoning, verbal prohibition, physical coercion, love withdrawal, and combinations thereof and children's responses to that discipline compliance/ noncompliance and avoidance. The relation between compliance/ noncompliance and type of misdeed harm to persons, harm to property, and lapses of self-control was also analyzed. Results indicated that love withdrawal combined with other techniques was most effective in securing children's compliance and that its effectiveness was not a function of the type of technique with which it was combined. Avoidant responses and affective reunification with the parent were more likely to follow love withdrawal than any other technique. Physical coercion was somewhat less effective than love withdrawal, while reasoning and verbal prohibition were not at all effective except when both were combined with physical coercion.
"Noncompliant Children sometimes prefer to say no directly as they were younger, they are easy to deal with the relationship with contemporaries when they are growing up. During the period that children is getting elder, who may learn to use more advanced approaches for their noncompliance. They are more skillful to negotiate or give reasons for refusal rather than show their opposite idea to parents directly," Said Henry Porter, scholar working in Psychology Institute of UK. He indicated that noncompliance means growth in some way, may have benefit for children. Many Experts held different viewpoints in recent years, they tried drilling compliance into children. His collaborator Wallace Freisen believed that Organizing child's daily activities so that they occur in the same order each day as much as possible. This first strategy for defiant children is ultimately the most important. Developing a routine helps a child to know what to expect and increases the chances that he or she will comply with things such as chores, homework, and hygiene requests. When undesirable activities occur in the same order at optimal times during the day, they become habits that are not questioned, but done without thought. Chances are that you have developed some type of routine for yourself in terms of showering, cleaning your house, or doing other types of work. You have an idea in your mind when you will do these things on a regular basis and this helps you to know what to expect. In fact, you have probably already been using most of these compliance strategies for yourself without realizing it. For children, without setting these expectations on a daily basis by making them part of a regular routine, they can become very upset. Just like adults, children think about what they plan to do that day and expect to be able to do what they want. So, when you come along and ask them to do something they weren't already planning to do that day, this can result in automatic refusals and other undesirable defiant behavior. However, by using this compliance strategy with defiant children, these activities are done almost every day in the same general order and the child expects to already do them.
Doctor Steven Walson addressed that organizing fun activities to occur after frequently refused activities. This strategy also works as a positive reinforcer when the child complies with your requests. By arranging your day so that things often refused occur right before highly preferred activities, you are able to eliminate defiant behavior and motivate your child's behavior of doing the undesirable activity. This is not to be presented in a way that the preferred activity is only allowed if a defiant child does the non-preferred activity. However, you can word your request in a way so that your child assumes that you have to do the non-preferred activity before moving on to the next preferred activity. For example, you do not want to say something such as, "If you clean your room we can play a game." Instead word your request like this, "As soon as you are done cleaning your room we will be able to play that really fun game you wanted to play."
Psychologist Paul Edith insisted praise is the best way to make children to comply with. This is probably a common term you are used to hearing by now. If you praise your child's behavior, he or she will be more likely to do that behavior. So, it is essential to use praise when working with defiant children. It also provides your child with positive attention. However, it is important to know how to praise children in a way that encourages future automatic reinforcement for your child when doing a similar behavior.
Choose the correct letter, A, B, C, or D.
Write your answers in boxes 27-31 on your answer sheet.
27 The children, especially boys received good education may
A always comply with their parents' words
B be good at math
C have a high score at school
D disobey their parents’ order sometimes
28 Face to their children's compliance and noncompliance, parents
A must be aware of the compliance
B ask for help from their teachers
C some of them may ignore their noncompliance
D pretend not to see
29 According to Henry Porter, noncompliance for children
A are entirely harmful
B may have positive effects
C needs medicine assistance
D should be treated by expert doctor
30 When children are growing up, they
A always try to directly say no
B are more skillful to negotiate
C learn to cheat instead of noncompliance
D tend to keep silent
31 Which is the possible reaction the passage mentioned for elder children and younger ones if they don't want to comply with the order
A elder children prefer to refuse directly
B elder ones refuse to answer
C younger children may reject directly
D younger ones may save any words
Look at the following people and list of statements below.
Match each person with the correct statement.
Write the correct letter A-G in boxes 32-35 on your answer
32 Henry Porter
33 Wallace Freisen
34 Steven Walson
35 Paul Edith
List of statements
A children of all ages will indirectly show noncompliance
B elder children tend to negotiate rather than show noncompliance
C converse behavior means noncompliance
D organizing fun activities to occur after frequently refused activities
E organizing child's daily activities in the same order as much as possible
F use praise in order to make children compliant
G take the children to school at an early age
Do the following statements agree with the information given in Reading Passage?
In boxes 36-40 on your answer sheet, write
YES if the statement is true
NO if the statement is false
NOT GIVEN if the information is not given in the passage
36 Socialization takes a long process, while compliance is the prior research subject.
37 Parents' cognition and attitude to their children's compliance or noncompliance are varied.
38 Younger children choose to be noncompliant because it may be simple to get along with the peers in the same age.
39 Experts never tried drilling compliance into children.
40 Psychologist Paul Edith negated the importance that knowing how to praise children in a encouraged way.
单选题 5题 答案： D C B B C
List of Statement人名配对 4题 答案：B E D F
T/F/NG 5题答案：NG Y Y N N
对于很多家长来说，让他们意识到听从这件事并不容易，一些家长甚至忽視孩子的不听从。即使对于一些接受了良好教育的孩子，他们在很多情况下也不听父母的话，尤其是到了一定年纪的男孩子。幸运的是，这种情况的比率还是在可接受范围内的，一些家长对于孩子的这种不听从还是表现出了耐心。有些人认为，孩子不听从大概也不是一件错的事情。为了确定不同的家长训诫方式对小孩子听从与不听从的影响，母亲往往需要训练有素，能够观察到她们蹒跚学步的孩子感情变化的细节。专家从使用的训诫方式的类型包括讲道理，口头禁止，身体的压制，对孩子的关爱取消和以上几种方式的组合以及孩子对这些训诫方式的反应听从或是不听从还是回避来分析这些有关训诫方式的报告。专家还分析了听 从与不听从和不端行为的类別包括对別人的伤害，对财务的损坏以及自我控制的失误之间的关系。结果显示，对孩子的关爱取消辅以其他的一些训诫方式在保证孩子听从父母意见方面是最有效的，结果还表明这种有效性并不是与关爱取消的训诫方式组合的其它方式的功能。和其它训诫方式相比，当父母对孩子取消关爱，孩子往往会对父母的命令产生回避性的反应，并表现出对父母的情感回归，和关爱取消的训诫方式相比，对孩子身体的压制没有那么有效，与此同时，讲道理和口头禁止也一点不起作用， 除非它们两个和身体压制这种方式相结合。
英国心理学研究所的学者Henry Porter曾说道：“不听话的孩子在他们还小的时候有时喜欢直接说“不”，在成长的过程中，他们容易处理和同龄人的关系问题。而当他们再长大些，他们学会用更高级的方式来表现他们的不听从。他们会更善于用和父母协商和向他们讲出拒绝的理由的方式，而不是直接向他们的父母表达反对的观点。”他指出， 孩子不听话某种程度上来讲意味着他们在成长，这对他们也许有利。近些年来，许多专家对此持不同的观点。他们试图训练孩子变得听话。Henry Porter的合作者Wallace Freisen认为，应该训练孩子的日常活动，让他们每天尽可能地有序地完成这些活动。 这是对反抗的孩子最最重要的优先策略。培养孩子的日常规范能够帮助他知道接下来要做什么，也能够加大他或她遵从对于像日常杂务，家庭作业还有卫生这些要求的机会。当一些他们讨厌的事情按着同样的顺序在一天中最理想的时间发生，它们就会成为一种不会被质疑的习惯，并且会不假思索的完成，极有可能你就会给自己养成一个固定的习惯，比如在洗澡，打扫房间或是做其它一些工作。当你养成习惯，在做这些事情的时候，你脑子里就知道该怎么做以及接下来会怎样。事实上，你很可能在没有意识的情况下采用了这种听从策略。对于孩子来说，不通过把这些变成一个他们每天生活的惯例，他们很容易就会很不安。就像大人一样，孩子打算好自己那天要做什么，也知道能得到自己期望的结果。因此，当你走过来让他们去做那天没有计划做的事情的时候，他们很容易就会自动拒绝或表现出其它反抗的行为。然而，对于一些反抗的孩子采用这种听从的策略，当这些事情在他们生活中几乎都会按同样的顺序出现的时候，每天几乎都会被完成而且孩子很期待去完成它们。